I'm a total brat, and really just looking around at the moment.
I am married, but polyamourous, as that would imply anything would have to happen with my husband's general knowledge and consent. I don't do the cheating behind the back thing, or put up with people who think they can take me from him. I'm not looking to replace my marriage, just find additional fulfilling relationships to bring more joy to my life, and hopefully the lives of everyone else involved.
I don't just jump into the sack with people, much less something more involved than sex. I adore sex with a passion, but I've gotta, at the very least, like you as person to be able to get into it. I'm not into one night stands, though occasional play/sexy times with a friend I connect with isn't out of the question, so long as there are clear expectations and boundaries.
In closing I would like to emphasize that at the moment I'm I'm not looking to jump right into anything. I'm mostly here to see what there is to see and maybe get to know a few new cool people. Whatever happens from there, happens.
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My Ideal Person:
My ideal person, or people would understand that they're not going to be the only important person in my life and be okay with that. Would be able to communicate needs and wants, and open up to me at least as much as they expect me to open up to them. They would understand that trust takes time, and also that I'm not a fetish, I'm a person. Nothing in a potential partner will turn me off faster than indications that they look at me and see my glasses or my bust, and not the person behind them.
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