This BDSM Life. I have been active in some fashion of alternative lifestyle for 20 years. I started this path back before fet, collar me, alt.com, yahoo, or even Red Dragon Inn. We are going way back to listserves here, but D/s fantasies started at a single digit age for me. I am just blessed to have been in the right era to have access to educating myself on those fantasies easily. I have been part of my local BDSM group for 9 years. I have had multiple different types of relationships, long term and short. I identify as a pleaser, a submissive, and baby girl, but only to my Daddy. My identity is evolving, fluctuating. I enjoy the idea of having my own boy or girl, but with consideration of my own Dominant, most likely it would be a girl. I am in a successful marriage that started because of BDSM, and flourishes despite and because of it. I am always growing, evolving and learning more about myself, when it comes to the fluidity of being 'alternative'. I am not a fan of labels, but sometimes they are just needed.
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